HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY LIFE. (Story

HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY

LIFE.

LIFE. EPISODE 1

My name is Amanda, i grew up in a

christian home, my parents are both

government workers, my father works in

an oil company while my mother is a

receptionist in a particular company.

When i was in secondary school, i

happened to be the best student in my

class, people liked to do things with me

because of my good altitude and am also

intelligent. When i was seven years old,

then i was

still in primary school, i have a very nice

voice and i was good in singing, i

proposed in my heart to become a

christian musician when i grew up.

I am the only child of my parents, each

time i come back home from school, i do

stay lonely, nobody in the house to stay

with, we have only one neighbor in our

compound, his name is uncle ken, my

parents normally come back late at night,

they will ask me to stay with uncle ken

till any of them arrives home.

So each time i come back from school, i

will eat my food and go straight to uncle

ken’s house.

Uncle ken is a teacher in a private

secondary school, so he comes back

early before any other person.

I stay in his house always, he liked me

because i have a nice voice and i can

sing very well.

Uncle ken always ask me to sing for him,

and each time am singing for him, he will

carry me on his laps and will be touching

and romancing my body, i asked him why

he always do that and he said because

he always enjoy my voice whenever am

singing for him.

Uncle ken is a generous man, he gives to

everybody, he never allowed me to go

hungry.

One day when i got to uncle ken’s house,

he asked me to sing for him, i told him

that am not in the mood to sing, he

pleaded with me and later gave me

money and i started singing for him, he

was touching my head and he carried me

on his legs too.

As a seven years old girl, i have no

knowledge of any evil thing, my mind was

free but one day, uncle ken asked me to

remove my clothes which i refused, he

wanted to touch me but i refused, he

now

told me that if i stop him again from

touching me he will order me out of his

house.

After that day, i wanted to tell my

parents of how uncle ken used to

touched me but

i was afraid to voice it out.

HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY

LIFE. EPISODE 2

One afternoon, i came back from school

and after eating my food i went to uncle

ken’s house, when i got there he asked

me to sing for him as usual, i started singing

but i was sitting far away from

him, he drew closer to me and started

romancing me, i was just 7years old while

uncle ken was still at his early 30s.

He pinned me to his body, i wanted to

shout but he used his hand to cover my

mouth, he removed my skirt and he

defiled me.

He had 5ex with me and threatened to

kill me if i tell my parents, i cried so hard

because the pain on me was so terrible, i

could not walk normal anymore, i was

spreading my two legs and blood was

goshing out, i managed to walk home

that very day.

At the evening time around 6pm, my mum

was the first to come back, she found me

sleeping, (i dont even know when i slept off)

According to my mum, she said she was

calling my name but i did not answer, she

tapped me three times before i woke up.

I woke up and started crying, she asked

me to stand up but i couldn’t, she inquired

to know what happened to me

and i told her what uncle ken did to me.

She exercised patient and waited for my

dad to come back. when my dad came

back, she narrated the story to him, he

called the police immediately and before the

police men could come to our house,

uncle ken was no where to be found.

I was taken to hospital for treatment, the

doctor and the nurses blamed my parents

for being so careless.

The doctor said that it was never a good

idea to leave me and uncle ken in one

house.

The police men was still searching for

uncle ken, they got an information that

he is at the motor park and about to take

off, they quickly matched down to the motor

park and caught him red handed.

Uncle ken was arrested and taken to

court, he pleaded guilty and he was

thrown into prison to serve for 10 good

years.

I stayed in the hospital for one week after

which i was discharged.

WATCH OUT FOR EPISODE 3.

My advice to parents: Please dont leave

your little daughter in the hands of a

single man thinking that nothing will

happen, devil can use anybody but dont give

room to it and dont also leave your

son in the hands of a single lady, they

can use them as 5ex toy. The days are

evil.

HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY

LIFE PART 3.

After the incident that happened to me

when i was 7years old, (how uncle ken

damaged my private body),

my parents took good care of me till i

graduated from secondary school.

My secondary school days was another

big case, i knew what i passed through in

the hands of my fellow school mates

(guys)

and some male teachers. Something

happened one day, there was

this guy who have been asking me out for

a long time to become his girlfriend, his

name is

chima, i told him that am from a christian

home and boyfriend and girlfriend is not of

God, a true child of God does not

suppose to engage

his/her self in boyfriend and girlfriend.

HE said i should forget about all that, he

said that he love me and will do anything

to have me as his girlfriends even if its by

killing someone.

My mum thought me how to keep my

body holy and how to abstain from

worldly friendship known as boyfriend

and girlfriend, he told me

that once i accept any boy in my life, he will

either lead me to evil or take away my

heart from God. Even after telling the guy

all

these things, he insisted that i should be

his girlfriend but i refused.

So he set up a trap for me, one day he

borrowed my maths text book, i willingly

gave it to him and he promise to return it

the next which was on Friday,

he did not return the text book but he

said i should come to his house to collect

it,..Come to your house?.. i asked him, he

said yes and thats the only option.

Our house is closer to his house, so on

Saturday evening i wanted to go to his

house but i knew its very risky to go alone

so i called

one of my friend to accompany me to his

house, its just a 20mins walk from my

house to his house, so before 7pm, i and

my friend joy got

to his house only to find out that he was

not around, i called him on phone and he

said we should wait for him, we waited for

30mins before

he finally arrived then it was 7:30pm.

I Never knew that chima was upto

something, he asked us to come inside, i

told him no that its already late, just go in

there and bring out my maths text book

because we will be having

maths test on Monday, thats true (chima

added).

He insisted that we should come into the

parlor before he will release the book,

because i was seriously in need of the book

so i and my friend entered the

parlor, what will i offer you (chima

inquired), please dont offer us anything,

just give us the book please its already

late i want to go and study my book.

After much exchange of words, my friend

joy said we should calm down to see

what chima want to offer us, i agreed

with her.

Chima went and brought us juice with

two glasses, i whispered to my friend’s

ear..(I dont trust chima, he might be up to

something), joy told me that nothing

will happen, i told her that i cannot drink

the juice, joy drank the juice alone and

after drinking the juice chima brought out

my maths text book and gave it

to me, he was angry because i did not drink

the juice.

Before we left his house, joy started

feeling weak and she said she is tired

that she cant go home with me, joy slept

off immediately feeling so weak.

What have you done to my friend? i asked

chima. (fear gripped me)

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HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY

LIFE. EPISODE 4

Before we left his house, joy started

feeling weak and she said she is tired

that she cant go home with me, joy slept

off immediately feeling so weak. What have

you done to my friend? i

asked chima. (fear gripped me)

Chima later confessed that he added a

sleeping pill to the juice so that i will

drink it and sleep off.

I really thank God that i did not drink it

because had it been i drank it together

with Joy my friend, i wonder what would

have happened.

This was just a glance of some of the

things that happened to me while in

secondary school. After graduating from

secondary school,

gaining an admission into the university

was a big case, I wrote many exams but

will end up disappointed.

I searched for Admission for 3 years but

all to no avail, i gave up but thank God for

my friend who encouraged me and

advised me not to give up.

As God may have it, i finally got an

admission into the university, i was very

happy and overwhelmed. I started

preparing to resume school immediately, I

washed and iron my clothes, gather all

the necessary things that i needed

including my cooking utensils.

I supposed to leave on Sunday morning

the next day but my parents advised me

to stay back and attend the church service

on sunday then i will travel on

Monday, i obeyed and stayed back.

In the midnight, thats the Sunday night

before monday, i started thinking of how

university life will look like, i proposed in

my heart to serve God even while in school,

but my mind was telling me that it

will not be easy for me, i thought of

school cults, runs girls, hunger strike and

money issues.

Many thoughts was rolling right inside my

mind, i later ask God to see me through and

i slept off that night.

Early in the morning, i woke up, took my

bath and arranged my luggages, before i

left the house my mummy called me to

her room and gave strong warning and

some piece of advice. She advised me to

focus on my studies,

abstain from cultism and bad friends, she

also said that i should not give my heart

to any man that i will end up

disappointed if i give my heart to any of

them, she concluded with…”Remember

Whom You Are”.

She forewarned me not to engage myself

in anything evil, her words were sounding

so heavy in my eyes, i nearly cried.

I finally left and she bid me bye bye.

MY FIRST DAY IN SCHOOL. I arrived the

school premises and was

walking down towards the extreme end

of the first gate, a guy approached me

and said he is searching For Block D

accounting class,

he said he is just coming for the first time, i

smiled and said: Even me am just

coming for the first and i dont know the

location of where you are searching for.

We both smiled at each other and we

parted. 

While i was still walking down, the guy

called me back and said: beautiful girl,

you forgot to tell me your name, i said ok

my name is Amanda, he added…my

name is

Osita and if you dont mind can i have

your number? i said no and he asked me

why, i told him that i dont give out my

number to strangers, he pleaded but i

refused.

He left and i continued.

HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY

LIFE. 

EPISODE 5 

My first day in school, i got

to the school

hostel, i met some people but my spirit

was pleased with one person and her

name is Angela, she is tall, fair and

beautiful, i moved in and started living

with Angela, She was so nice to me and we

lived together like blood sisters,

Angela love the things of God too just

like me but she’s not that religious than i

was.

I shared with her my past experience in

secondary school and how my admission

was delayed for three years, she told me

her own story too. (IN LIFE, EVERYONE

HAS A STORY TO TELL)

After my first semester in school, i

cleared all my papers, i did not have any

problem in any of my subjects, i passed all.

My friend Angela failed just one subject

but she passed all, she was happy too

but her happiness was not like mine

because i did not fail any subject. Angela

had a boyfriend whose name was

Mike, she told me that she love Mike to

the extent that she can even die for him, i

started preaching to Angela that

boyfriend and girlfriend is a terrible sin

before God, the reason why people do

boyfriend and girlfriend is just to be

committing immorality. I told her that if

trumpet should sound now that she will

not make heaven with her boyfriend.

I preached to her and advised her just as

my mum advised me but she did not even

want to hear me, this issue made her to

keep malice with me for 3days, if i greet

her early in the morning she will not

answer me.

After 3days we settled and became

friends again because we cannot be living in

the same room and be keeping

malice to each other. One Sunday morning, i

prepared to go to

church, Angela was still on her bed

resting, i told her to dress up so that we

will go to church together, she told me

that her boyfriend will be coming to see

her that Sunday morning. I was still in the

house when her boyfriend came and

knocked at our door, Who is that?..is me

Mike, Angela rushed to the door to meet

him, she welcomed him inside and they

were so happy to see each other.

That very day, when i was about taking my

leave, Angela said i should remember

her in my prayers when i get to church,

they both laughed at me and called me

Sister Mary.

I left the both of them in the room and

went to church, when i got to church i was

already late but i was able to meet

up before the message of that day in

church. The topic of that day message

was “Saying No To The Devil” our pastor

lamented on the topic and advised us to

always say no to the voice of the devil, he

said we

should not allow anyone to deceive us

with vain words, he further explained that

whenever the devil is telling us to do evil

that we should resist him and he will flee

from us Just like our lord Jesus resisted the

devil according to the book of

Mathew chapter 4 verses

1 to 11.

After the church service i went back

home, when i got to the hostel and i

opened the door to our room, what i saw

changed my mood immediately. I did not

knock before entering the room

because i was not expecting to see

anything, i saw Angela and her boyfriend

on the same bed having se.x as if they

are husband and wife.

Is this how you want to end up living your

life? I asked Angela. I kept my bible and

went out immediately.

 HOW UNIVERSITY DESTROYED MY

LIFE.

 EPISODE 6 

(FINAL EPISODE) Living

together with Angela was a very

bad move at the first place, Angela love

men, she sleeps around and flirt with

different men and she dont lack money,

she later introduced me to a guy because

i always beg her for money so she said i

cant just be eating her money without

doing what she is doing, she told me that

we will repent after graduating from the

university, she said this is our best time

to enjoy our self. I started going out with

the guy, all my altitude changed, i became a

different person entirely. I no

more go to church, i dont read my book

atimes, you will always find us in a night

club or party dance hall.

We were making money sleeping with

different men, we travel far away to go and

sleep with men all in the name of

money. I changed my name from Amanda

to Lady Hot. Because we needed protection,

i and my

friend joined school cult. The cult was

just for ladies only, the name of the cult

is Black Devils.

I did 7 abortions and i was made the

second in command of the Black Devils

campus cult. Sometimes we go for

robbery, we kill anyone that fail to

corporate with us.

I never had the time to read by books

anymore, i lie and collect money from my

parents even when am not in need of it, we

were engaged in so many deadly

activities. One day we went for robbery, we

were

caught by the police and was taken to

court, they called my parents and told

them that i was caught with some group

of ladies, they did not believe it because

they trusted me. we were later thrown into

prison and in prison, we were

detained for 7 years in prison, when i

came out of the prison, i fell sick and my

parents rush me to the hospital, the

doctor did all he could and i was treated

but the doctor said that he discovered

something in my body.

He told my parents that i have done

many abortions and for that reason i

cannot be able to give birth when i get

married. My parents wept soberly

because all their effort to send me to the

university was just a waste of time.

I have no result.

Am an ex-convict.

I cant give birth anymore.

Oh! university life and pleasure have

destroyed my life, had it been i did not go to

university, my life would have been

better.

THE-END My Advise To those in University:

Dont give your soul to the devil, avoid

living with bad friends, boyfriend and

girlfriend is a terrible sin that will lead you

to abortion and heartbreak.

Angela in the above story started with

just a boyfriend and ended up with many

boyfriends.

Keep your body holy for God.

Going to University is good but dont let

the freedom you have over there to

destroy you. Live your life with fear and

trembling having this mind that you are

going to give account of your life

someday. Thank you all for reading, the

story you

just finished reading was composed to

save many dying souls. its a fictional

story but it have happened to many in

different ways. I pray that almighty God will

give you the

grace to run from evil in Jesus name.